“Hey You! Yeah … You!”

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By: Qosmic Qadence

I’ve managed to evade the “Holy Shit! I’m getting old!” plague which can be a terror.

The closer I get to forty I’m thinking, “Wow! I’m about to enter the realm of the mature. I mean, if you guys are young? Meh … been there done that shit. Good Luck! Ha!

No seriously, live & learn. It’s fun to grow up. But know that there’s no standard of preparedness that everyone should aspire to rise to – you must create it.

Preparations should hinge on the tangible and intangible, not just high expectations and even higher hopes.

Word of advice, “Put away as much money as you can now. It’s the best time to do so, even though you think you don’t have much.

That way, as you grow and mature – so does the accumulation of tangible wealth, to be converted into assets later.” It’s not JUST about money, it’s what you could DO with the money to be a blessing to others.

So again, do your future self the favor of setting them up to be sensational. There could be no greater act of self-love.

Best Wishes!

*Author of, “The Book of Qos – Inspirational Words of Life”, he is avidly outspoken about the simplicity of life and how a more practical approach can yield benefits immeasurable. Visit his website to explore his work & this movement further.

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“Pray, Plan, Execute”

By: Qosmic Qadence

Always remember that the flow of positive energy in your life starts with your willingness to let go of the negative (worry, stress, fear, anxiety, unbelief etc) in order to fully embrace the positive possibilities bundled into change.

God needs our help! It’s not solely up to him to change our situation, while tailoring it to our liking. Don’t reduce the effectual working power of the supreme being to that of a magician.

God is more of a guide through the darkness of tough times, or a Big Brother (so to speak) who steps in when he notices us struggling to carry a heavy load. We actually have to be CARRYING a burdensome load of some sort.

Think about what you want, pray about it, and then start devising a plan for achievement. Don’t think this method to be crazy, although I’ll be the first to admit that it is entirely unconventional. Trust me, it’ll work like a charm.

People seem to be conditioned – for whatever reason – to pray & then wait for their miracles. (Again, reducing God to the role of a magician in their lives.) Meanwhile, those who pray & work are rewarded.

Prayer is a form of meditation, a deep reflection on what is desired. If you’ve ever felt peace after saying a prayer, that’s a sure sign of having made a deep connection with the foundation of your being.

Often within that state of peacefulness, you’ll recognize how freely ideas, concepts, answers to questions pondered for a while etc, will free flow.

There’s power in centering yourself, slowing down your mind, thoughts and body that a peaceful connection & conversation within can transpire.

Pray, Plan & Execute! If your path in life is ever to change, you’ll actually have to be ON A PATH in order to notice the difference.

Best Wishes

*Author of, “The Book of Qos – Inspirational Words of Life”, he is avidly outspoken about the simplicity of life and how a more practical approach can yield benefits immeasurable. Visit his website listed above to explore his work & this movement further.

“Life Is For The Living!”

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By: Qosmic Qadence (Author, Poet)
@qosmic_qadence
http://www.qosmicqadence.com

Suppose with me for a second that everything you’ve ever desired in life was obtained. Suppose every dream you ever dared to dream came to fruition. Suppose every fear you could possibly conceive was eradicated by the exact opposite, and worry was replaced with an abundance of bliss. I suppose if this were possible you’d be a cartoon sketched or fictitious character from the pages of someone else’s wildest imagining.

Life isn’t always perfect. We don’t always win. We aren’t always met with the most favorable circumstances in every situation. But that’s what makes life a beautiful experience in and of itself. “Life is a journey of realization, which often ends in that place where dreams never begin”.

We must allow ourselves the opportunity to grow through experiences. Otherwise, we’ll follow the pattern of an old fools perception, lamenting in future years of how life was too short. In actuality, if more time is spent enjoying the precious moments gifted – including taking the bitter with the sweet – we’ll find ourselves more fulfilled through gratefulness.

Don’t rob yourself of an amazing journey through life because you’re burdened with worrying about the uncontrollable; hoping for the not yet attained; supposing to achieve what will never occur without action; or waiting alas for the magic to happen.

Make the best of what you have. Time elapses second by second whether we acknowledge it or not. Thus, time worthwhile is best measured in those moments spent living.

Enjoy the moments!

Qosmic Qadence
http://www.qosmicqadence.com

*Author of a Self-Help Relationship book entitled, “Y’all Got The Game Fu#%ed Up” is avidly outspoken about Male/Female relationships & the missing dynamic that leads most to failure these days. Visit his website listed above to explore this movement.

“Dream Support? Who Does That?”

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By: Qosmic Qadence (Author, Poet)
@qosmic_qadence
http://www.qosmicqadence.com

Have you ever had a DREAM? Ever HOPED to accomplish something Bigger Than Yourself? Ever DESIRED to Share a precious gift with the world that you Knew would benefit all of humanity once they got wind of it? Wasn’t that Dream, Hope &/or Desire of yours embraced by every solitary person that you encountered and shared it with? Didn’t they think you were the Greatest thing since sliced bread for devising such an idea and presenting it to them? Ha! OF COURSE NOT SILLY! “Welcome To The Real World!”

As a writer I’ve found it easier not to actually EXPECT support from anyone. It’s a mental and emotional trap to do so. Those people who have businesses that I’ve supported &/or presently support, or that I’ve extended certain courtesies, done things for and the like. Well, they weren’t gifted the blessing of my time or favor, in hopes of some eventual instance of payback displayed in a book sale or two. Nor was I hoping they’d end up “Shouting Me Out” promotionally via their social media pages.

Would it help my efforts if they did? Without question it would! But, God Bless those people anyway. My strides in life as an Author/Poet/Writer are being supported by some amazing “PEOPLE” whose acquaintance I would never have had an opportunity to make, without first pursuing MY dream. Therefore, even giving attention to those who aren’t supporting me is sort of a slap in the face to those who are! At least, that’s how I see it.

I had a mentor tell me years ago, “Your success in life will be perceived as some peoples failure! This is the reason they’ll find it difficult to throw their support behind your efforts”. So you see, complaining about their lack of support sort of feeds their hope that you won’t succeed – not to mention it validates their insecurities in life.

Think about it this way, if your success depended on their support alone, well, you’d pretty much be a failure presently. And we know this isn’t the case, right? Focus on what matters, keep grinding, push yourself to the maximum and seek to persevere at all costs, regardless who supports you.

Your blessings are YOUR blessings, designed for acquisition when the time comes. Value, Honor & Respect Them All! Sometimes, they’re disguised as a lack of support to spur focus & hard work.

Those Dreams, Hopes & Desires are YOURS to bring to Life! Don’t You Dare Stop To Monitor Support, When There’s Plenty Of Work To Be Done Before Making That A Reality!

Be Incredible!

Qosmic Qadence
http://www.qosmicqadence.com

*Author of a Self-Help Relationship book entitled, “Y’all Got The Game Fu#%ed Up” is avidly outspoken about Male/Female relationships & the missing dynamic that leads most to failure these days. Visit his website listed above to explore this movement.