“Life Is For The Living!”


By: Qosmic Qadence (Author, Poet)

Suppose with me for a second that everything you’ve ever desired in life was obtained. Suppose every dream you ever dared to dream came to fruition. Suppose every fear you could possibly conceive was eradicated by the exact opposite, and worry was replaced with an abundance of bliss. I suppose if this were possible you’d be a cartoon sketched or fictitious character from the pages of someone else’s wildest imagining.

Life isn’t always perfect. We don’t always win. We aren’t always met with the most favorable circumstances in every situation. But that’s what makes life a beautiful experience in and of itself. “Life is a journey of realization, which often ends in that place where dreams never begin”.

We must allow ourselves the opportunity to grow through experiences. Otherwise, we’ll follow the pattern of an old fools perception, lamenting in future years of how life was too short. In actuality, if more time is spent enjoying the precious moments gifted – including taking the bitter with the sweet – we’ll find ourselves more fulfilled through gratefulness.

Don’t rob yourself of an amazing journey through life because you’re burdened with worrying about the uncontrollable; hoping for the not yet attained; supposing to achieve what will never occur without action; or waiting alas for the magic to happen.

Make the best of what you have. Time elapses second by second whether we acknowledge it or not. Thus, time worthwhile is best measured in those moments spent living.

Enjoy the moments!

Qosmic Qadence

*Author of a Self-Help Relationship book entitled, “Y’all Got The Game Fu#%ed Up” is avidly outspoken about Male/Female relationships & the missing dynamic that leads most to failure these days. Visit his website listed above to explore this movement.


“Dream Support? Who Does That?”


By: Qosmic Qadence (Author, Poet)

Have you ever had a DREAM? Ever HOPED to accomplish something Bigger Than Yourself? Ever DESIRED to Share a precious gift with the world that you Knew would benefit all of humanity once they got wind of it? Wasn’t that Dream, Hope &/or Desire of yours embraced by every solitary person that you encountered and shared it with? Didn’t they think you were the Greatest thing since sliced bread for devising such an idea and presenting it to them? Ha! OF COURSE NOT SILLY! “Welcome To The Real World!”

As a writer I’ve found it easier not to actually EXPECT support from anyone. It’s a mental and emotional trap to do so. Those people who have businesses that I’ve supported &/or presently support, or that I’ve extended certain courtesies, done things for and the like. Well, they weren’t gifted the blessing of my time or favor, in hopes of some eventual instance of payback displayed in a book sale or two. Nor was I hoping they’d end up “Shouting Me Out” promotionally via their social media pages.

Would it help my efforts if they did? Without question it would! But, God Bless those people anyway. My strides in life as an Author/Poet/Writer are being supported by some amazing “PEOPLE” whose acquaintance I would never have had an opportunity to make, without first pursuing MY dream. Therefore, even giving attention to those who aren’t supporting me is sort of a slap in the face to those who are! At least, that’s how I see it.

I had a mentor tell me years ago, “Your success in life will be perceived as some peoples failure! This is the reason they’ll find it difficult to throw their support behind your efforts”. So you see, complaining about their lack of support sort of feeds their hope that you won’t succeed – not to mention it validates their insecurities in life.

Think about it this way, if your success depended on their support alone, well, you’d pretty much be a failure presently. And we know this isn’t the case, right? Focus on what matters, keep grinding, push yourself to the maximum and seek to persevere at all costs, regardless who supports you.

Your blessings are YOUR blessings, designed for acquisition when the time comes. Value, Honor & Respect Them All! Sometimes, they’re disguised as a lack of support to spur focus & hard work.

Those Dreams, Hopes & Desires are YOURS to bring to Life! Don’t You Dare Stop To Monitor Support, When There’s Plenty Of Work To Be Done Before Making That A Reality!

Be Incredible!

Qosmic Qadence

*Author of a Self-Help Relationship book entitled, “Y’all Got The Game Fu#%ed Up” is avidly outspoken about Male/Female relationships & the missing dynamic that leads most to failure these days. Visit his website listed above to explore this movement.

“Self-Respect Goes A Long Way!”

By: Qosmic Qadence

If it takes you 5 seconds to determine whether you’d have Sex with me, then “I’ll Pass”. Otherwise, I’d perhaps pass away, from whatever you’re so quick to pass out. No thanks!

*Soap Box Moment*
A tad annoyed by this perception that it’s cool to Act on Impulses of Lust solely, while expecting a “Forevership” to dynamically develop.

Yes I’m Well Aware That ‘Forevership’ Isn’t An Actual Word! It’s more of a noble concept to consider for practical purposes of building towards & solidifying a foundation.

Breaking the patterns of destructive behavior will sustain your life. Though, if living for the moment is more important than living long term, then who am I to stand in your way? If You Don’t Respect Yourself, Why Should Anyone Else?


“Don’t Give Up!”

By: Qosmic Qadence

The place where you are in life at this very moment is a part of DESTINY! The plans are in motion, though a lot of times people get lost within the process, because they don’t understand that you MUST weather the storm. When it’s over the sun going to shine brighter on your life than you could have ever imagined!


You’re immensely gifted and your life is on the RIGHT track! It’s not always comfortable and things don’t always work the way we want them to, but that’s Life!

If things were contrary to this, you’d be a genie and your life would amount to nothing more than a bunch of wishes that you made come true in a blink. There’s no way that you’d appreciate nor be satisfied with any of those unearned results.

Tough times prepare you to be responsible with & appreciative to your blessings when they do come. Be weary, it’s human to be sometimes.

But Don’t You Dare Give Up!

“Are You Ready?”

By: Qosmic Qadence

Today’s the 1st day of the REST of your Life! Might as well get off to the absolute best start possible, right? Are you ready?

Complaining only slows progress … worrying about things BEYOND your control is futile! Are you ready?

Being laser FOCUSED on doing ‘ALL You Can’ to assure your Ultimate Success is PARAMOUNT!!! When it’s all said and done, your BEST Effort is all you could EVER have given. Are you ready?

As if robbing yourself of Greatness isn’t HORRIBLE enough! To STEAL from the world a Gift Rich, Talent Infected, Unparalled Manifestation of Brilliance is CRIMINAL! Life doesn’t OWE you anything, though you OWE it to life to make yours COUNT! Are You Ready?

“Open Letter To Self”

(By: Qosmic Qadence)

Dear Self,

I realize that you’re full of all these dreams, hopes, desires, goals, imaginings, ideas, ambitions, plans, wishes etc. But, quite frankly, I haven’t the time to fullfil them all.

I mean really, have you checked your list lately???? It’s full of all kinds of stuff that I’m afraid just won’t work! Or worse, that’ll cause people to talk about us and think we’re crazy!!! We can’t have that now, can we? Of course not! Especially because we really care about the opinions that others form and carry of us.

Perhaps tomorrow I’ll devote more time to these silly ideas you keep crafting. There’s simply not enough time in the day between work, taking care of home, social networking, watching TV, playing games, talking on the phone, gossiping, watching videos, catching up on the latest celebrity news and fashion trends etc. Seriously, who can find the time for anything else?

Well, hopefully you understand that we’re just going to have to put your foolishness on the back burner until we get some of the more important things mentioned off of our plate. I mean, what’s the hurry anyway? *smile*

You’re really awesome, I truly mean that! However, the extra effort to make those dreams, hopes, desires, ambitions, plans & wishes come to fruition, I am simply not willing to give! It’s not really worth it right now. *shrug* Maybe sometime soon though. You understand that right?

Don’t worry, tomorrow we’ll work on us, I promise!!!!!! I love you!

Unfortunately Yours Forever!
Your Lazy Unbelief