“Who Leaves First Shall Die”

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By: Qosmic Qadence (Author, Poet)
@qosmic_qadence
http://www.qosmicqadence.com

Art and the interpretation thereof is a many splendid thing. Art is supposed to evoke emotion & incite thoughts or conversation.

In my opinion the imagery above depicts an interesting dynamic in thought process for the sexes. The psychology of Male vs. Female interactions is profoundly evident here. Men and Women invest themselves emotionally into relationships a little differently. Both the physical and emotional characteristics are depicted remarkably in the portrait.

Most Women invest themselves from an ‘Emotionally Spiritual’ standpoint and (as evidenced in her right hand securely clutching him high around the neck) they seek to hold on to their love at all costs – having opened her soul to the encounter. Although she holds the power to destroy the relationship (as depicted with the knife in her left hand) she’d much rather spare her love interest initially and incur the pain of his attempt to leave. This is an act that will undoubtedly hurt her more (as displayed with the knife being directed at her tightly grasped left hand), than it will the man. Though her investment is firm.

Conversely, most Men invest themselves from an ‘Emotionally Mental’ standpoint. It’s no easy thing for a man to open up and give his all to a relationship. When he does he takes it seriously & does so protecting his vested interest (evidenced in his right hand tightly embracing her in the core of her back), with a desire to become her foundation & provide her every need. This investment isn’t taken lightly for a man, so if things go awry at her doing, the relationship investment deserves imminent death (as displayed in the knife being directed at her neck), and he feels no obligation to prevent that.

Not until Men & Women grow in love securely, will they ever be able to blend both the innate physical & emotional characteristics explained above, to form an unbreakable bond solidified in Truth, Love & Understanding.

(Image origin: http://godisheart.blogspot.com/2014/01/who-leaves-first-shall-die.html?m=1 )

Qosmic Qadence
http://www.qosmicqadence.com

*Author of a Self-Help Relationship book entitled, “Y’all Got The Game Fu#%ed Up” is avidly outspoken about Male/Female relationships & the missing dynamic that leads most to failure these days. Visit his website listed above to explore this movement.

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“Abstinence Means You Love YOU”

By: Qosmic Qadence

Before he penetrates you physically,
Let elapsed time stimulate you mentally.
Passion ignited by words that sensually,
Kindle infernos erotically sustained.
The magnetism of soul energy,
A priceless gift when appreciated genuinely.
Seek to gain & maintain respectability?
Then choose to Sexually Abstain.
A Prize So Preciously Reserved,
For The One Making Love To Your Brain!
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I’ve been sexually active for a number of years, with a lot of women, and the unfortunate truth is that, ultimately I ONLY MARRIED ONE OF THEM.

This is Tragic in the grand scheme of things, for all those women essentially shared something with me that I didn’t deserve – a part of them respectively that should’ve been reserved for the man of their dreams.

I have a daughter, sisters, nieces, female family members and friends alike that I love, who I’d like to encourage to respect yourselves by allowing patience to have her way in your situations.

Forward, Tag People or simply share this with people that you feel could be EMPOWERED by this message!

Let’s change our habits and change the world for the better.

QosmicQadence is Poet & Author of 2 books, “The Book of Qos” & “Love vs. The World” Have You Purchased Your Copies Yet? The Perfect Gifts Any Time of The Year! www.QosmicQadence.com

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“Self-Respect Goes A Long Way!”

By: Qosmic Qadence

If it takes you 5 seconds to determine whether you’d have Sex with me, then “I’ll Pass”. Otherwise, I’d perhaps pass away, from whatever you’re so quick to pass out. No thanks!

*Soap Box Moment*
A tad annoyed by this perception that it’s cool to Act on Impulses of Lust solely, while expecting a “Forevership” to dynamically develop.

Yes I’m Well Aware That ‘Forevership’ Isn’t An Actual Word! It’s more of a noble concept to consider for practical purposes of building towards & solidifying a foundation.

Breaking the patterns of destructive behavior will sustain your life. Though, if living for the moment is more important than living long term, then who am I to stand in your way? If You Don’t Respect Yourself, Why Should Anyone Else?

#GodHelpUs