“How Many More Must Die, Before Justice We Decry?”

December 5, 2014qosmicqadence action, Advice, Blogger, Dream, Enjoyment, Erotic, Focus, food for thought, goals, good intentions, good man, good men, insight, inspiration, Inspiration/Motivation, just do it, Life, Live, men, Passion, Pleasure, Purpose, resolution, Respect, Success, Support, truth, Uncategorized, women, words to live by Tags: Disrespect, End Racism, Hate, Our Lives Matter, Violence, wndhayedulnessc Leave a comment

By: Qosmic Qadence

Are all law enforcement officials evil? Absolutely NOT! Are black people or ANY people deserving of the target practice that is ensuing on American City streets, by these rogue officers? HELL NO!

This is TRULY not a color issue, despite black people being (per usual) disproportionately affected by this ridiculous and reckless disregard for human life. But, this boils down to being a BAD PEOPLE issue. The problem is that we have far too many BAD people, occupying critically important high ranking positions of authority. Systems for training these officers to better handle and gauge (as well as to prevent or defuse) hostile situations is entirely NECESSARY!

Not only is it long overdue, but there needs to be some cohesion between U.S. Cities & States, to assure that the same EFFECTIVE systems are established and maintained concurrently. There also needs to be a more serious effort toward evaluating these officers mentally and psychologically, at varying intervals of time throughout the year, as they do their jobs. They need to be head checked as a result of that stressful job, not to mention their life issues that more than likely effects job performance.

The aforementioned (just to name a few) systems for training and mental evaluation are necessary because without even being an officer, we can all attest to how stressful the job appears as we’ve observed officers engage in the acts of actually serving and protecting within our communities. I’ve worked high pressure positions over the years that shot stress levels to their peaks. As a result, this oftentimes led to me being a complete asshole to my staff. God forbid I had a firearm to wield and/or potentially discharge. Who knows what would’ve happened in those offices?

Police Officers are sworn in to Serve; Protect; Enforce Laws; & make Arrests. Not to repeatedly assassinate the citizens. I have an enormous amount of respect for Proper Authority & most certainly appreciate the officers who risk life in limb in the face of indignation, to do their jobs. Kudos to each of you who know in your heart of hearts, whether you can be categorized herein. I likewise have a gut turning, soul burning disdain for Murders & Gangsters wearing Police costumes. Last I checked, that pagan Halloween event takes place once annually. So, it’s high time we expose the frauds, and find out what their true uniforms are. Beyond that, it’s time to put these criminals and perpetrators of organized crime against humanity, in the very Prisons the government has invested Billions of dollars into building to isolate such people from society.

Each of us can observe the actions of Law Enforcement Officials when we witness them treating a citizen unjustly. Each of us can file a report or raise a legitimate complaint in this regard. These things are very EASY for us to do. But to repeatedly turn a blind eye to these heinous atrocities of the vile human condition, is unconscionable at this point! And frankly, we should all be ashamed of ourselves! Though, shamed into correcting the ship, as no one is going to do this for us. We MUST initiate change ourselves!

We’ll Either Stand For Something,
Or Die For Nothing!

“Elementary Watson”

September 11, 2014September 11, 2014qosmicqadence action, Advice, Blogger, Dream, Focus, food for thought, goals, good intentions, good man, good men, insight, inspiration, Inspiration/Motivation, just do it, Life, Live, men, motivation, Passion, Pleasure, Purpose, resolution, Respect, self help, Success, Support, truth, Uncategorized, women, words to live by Tags: Direction, encouragement, guidance, Harmony, inspiration, Instruction, joy, life, live, Love, motivation, peace Leave a comment

by: Qosmic Qadence

Examine your motives if you will. If your ambition is to succeed in life just to piss people off, I’d go so far as to say, “Cut that shit out! Grow Up Already!”

I’d imagine such a scheme involving plans to use new found wealth and prosperity, to flaunt recent achievement of new status. This is a putrid cycle of moral indignation. One where status is sought & once obtained, converted into this false power which elevates people in their minds – above others.

Don’t victimize yourself. Instead, press forward with a positive mindset and directives for advancement. Whomever decided to pass up an opportunity to share in your triumphs of life, well, “God Bless ’em!”

Actually, we needed all of those people to help us find the perspective, to focus on accomplishing the mission. So, this means that you too have played this role in the advancement of others.

Bless your existence … mistakes, flaws & all.

Be Incredible!
Q

*Author of, “The Book of Qos – Inspirational Words of Life”, he is avidly outspoken about the simplicity of life and how a more practical approach can yield benefits immeasurable. Visit his website to explore his work & this movement further.

Log onto: http://www.QosmicQadence.com for more of his writings.

“What Goes Around, Comes Around”

June 13, 2014June 13, 2014qosmicqadence action, Advice, Blogger, Dream, Enjoyment, Focus, food for thought, goals, good intentions, insight, inspiration, Inspiration/Motivation, just do it, Life, Live, motivation, Purpose, resolution, Respect, self help, Success, Support, truth, Uncategorized, words to live by Tags: golden rule, karma, law of attraction, the golden rule, the law of attraction Leave a comment

By: Qosmic Qadence

Imagine if never speaking to someone in the tone that you didn’t want to be spoken to in, was enough to prevent occurrence?

Suppose changing your view of the world REALLY allowed you to see the world differently, thus expanding both your Vision and Reality?

“What Goes Around, Comes Around”
This is an irrefutable truth, most often misused by the untrained mouth – of an untrained mind. Those who interpret this beautiful yet simple principle of “Karma” negatively – almost each and every time – not understanding the universal principle of reciprocation.

“Do unto others as you would have others do unto you.”

Whatever you put into the universe comes back to you. Including the good stuff. If you want help, help someone. You’ll gain an instant cheerleader who’ll fight an entire battle side by side with you, out of appreciation to your indomitable will.

If you want the world to change, change your perception of the world. Think beyond what you see daily and live just as you’d like. At the end of the day, what some of us consider ingenious, others dislike.

Best Wishes

“Mr. & Mrs. All Wrong For One Another”

May 17, 2014February 8, 2016qosmicqadence abstinence, action, Advice, Blogger, Dream, Enjoyment, Focus, food for thought, goals, good intentions, good man, good men, insight, inspiration, Inspiration/Motivation, just do it, Life, Live, men, motivation, Purpose, relationship, relationship advice, relationship help, relationship insight, relationship101, relationships, resolution, Respect, self help, Sex Talk, Success, Support, truth, Uncategorized, women, words to live by Tags: advice, Healing, Man, men, Mr. Right, Mr. Wrong, Mrs. Right Now, Mrs. Wrong, relationship, relationships, Woman, women Leave a comment

By: Qosmic Qadence

I’m thoroughly convinced that most women spend a good portion of their young lives sifting through all of the Mr. Wrong’s that come along. While sifting some even get trapped or trap themselves with children, joint property ownership, marriage etc. Given the joint responsibilities to assets or human lives, it becomes a nightmarish uphill battle reestablishing independence, or in the least freedom from that situation.

Complicating matters here is that most men take a little longer to mature mentally and emotionally. It’s an irrefutable truth that by nature men Hunt & women Nest. While being labeled Mr. Wrong, they’re actually more accurately Mr. NotRightNow (a.k.a. Mr. WannaHaveFun; b.k.a. Mr. OnTheProwl).

By the time they’ve exhausted their immature phase of fun and games, and are ready to settle down, MOST women have grown tired of what they rightfully perceive to be “The Game”.

At this point one of two things happens:

• #1 – Women themselves begin playing “The Game”, and end up screwing over a good man. All the while paying back men for all of the heart & headaches endured through previous encounters. That is, whether they’re the direct cause or not.

– OR –

• #2 – Women become game conscious and men who’ve thought themselves to be done with “The Game”, instead find themselves & their every move under heavy scrutiny. Mind you, they could be noble in their intentions and honestly not messing around on the side; nor possess a desire to. But, both the positive and negative spin on this situation, are more often than not based on previous experience with that particular type of man or others.

Ladies & Gents, be very careful. The worst thing you can do is allow the ugliness of experience to darken your heart & taint your mentality. It’s also terrible to have a mate feel like, “What the hell! If I’m going to be accused of messing around, I might as well make it count.” It’s not always what you say to a person, but sometimes your accusatory reactions can be equally as off putting or damaging.

Surely there are real life instances where both of the gender ascribed traits within this writing, are applicable to both sexes and can be reversed. So, in the general sense my advice is this, “Be clear with those with whom you encounter about your aim, mission, or desires.”

I’ll forever contend that 9 times out of 10, a woman wants the same thing(s) that a man does – and vice versa. If we’d ALL grow up and be more honest with one another about what we truly desire, a world of opportunity would present itself for the taking.

Side with honesty or keep playing “The Game” with ‘Mr. & Mrs. Wrong’.
The choice is yours.

Best Wishes
Qosmic Qadence

http://www.qosmicqadence.com

*Author of a Self-Help Relationship book entitled, “Y’all Got The Game Fu#%ed Up”, he is avidly outspoken about Male/Female relationships & the missing dynamic that leads most to failure these days. He has also published 2 books of poetry “Love vs. The World” & “Love Letters”, as well as a book of inspirational content entitled, “The Book of Qos – Inspirational Words of Life”. Visit his website listed above to explore his work & this movement further.

“Vision” – It’s Time For You To Choose

April 8, 2014April 8, 2014qosmicqadence action, Advice, Blogger, Dream, Enjoyment, Focus, food for thought, goals, good intentions, insight, inspiration, Inspiration/Motivation, just do it, Life, Live, motivation, Purpose, resolution, Respect, self help, Success, Support, truth, Uncategorized, words to live by Tags: dream dreams vision focus support inspiration take action live free 1 Comment

By: Qosmic Qadence

Greetings All!

In this post I’d like to speak with you all about vision. There are three definitions that we’ll focus on for reference.

Vision (noun) vi·sion\ˈvi-zhən\
: something that you imagine
: a picture that you see in your mind.
: something that you see or dream especially as part of a religious or supernatural experience.

In light of the above definitions of vision & the image posted, I’d like to speak about the vision of publishing my first book of poetry.

The idea & subsequent dream was born in 2003, though I wouldn’t begin to actively write toward it’s eventual completion until 2007. However, after investing time and energy over and over thru the years into my professional life – not to mention doing all the things that ‘GrownUps’ are supposed to – well, my seemingly not so special side projects were placed on the far back burner.

There’s a huge difference between having a dream and having vision. Everyone dreams, but when you have a vision it compels you to take actions beneficial to the acquisition of the dream.

You see, there’s something altogether life altering about vision. When you really see it, that stuff gets down into your bone marrow and won’t let you rest for a second, until you’ve exhausted all possibilities for achievement. You’re better off never having vision to begin with! Ha!

Life showed me that it was time to start living and making a difference broad scale, as I’d always hoped to be able to. After severing professional ties with a company that had all but enslaved my time and energy 5 years too long, I was reminded of my publishing vision.

To make a long story short, I dove in with both shoes tied tight & within 60 days of walking away, I’d published my first book of poetry, “Love vs. The World”.

I’ve sold many copies of this particular book & it always floors me when someone makes a purchase (now of that or any of my 4 published books). To think, I spent an incalculable amount of time planning, designing, creating, writing for & envisioning the finished product of my words in book form to share with others. And, lo and behold people think & find it necessary to purchase “My Vision” now that I’ve activated it. It’s An Electrifying Experience! I assure you.

I launched this book without a huge PR or marketing campaign, nor celeb fanfare or assistance, begging support from their shady followers on my behalf. “Noooo, I wasn’t ready” (in my Kevin Hart voice. Ha!) I did so instead, fueled by this vision & a dream that wouldn’t let me sleep, without nagging nightmarishly. Once the vision has been written into your psyche & down on paper, the execution requires the hardest work of your life! The first & most critical step being, taking an actual first step toward achievement.

Today I love knowing what it means to fulfill a dream & to have that dream give birth to a plethora of others. I cringe imagining a life where some mundane routine becomes the vital blood filling your veins, and the very air that you breathe.

“No One Said Life Would Be Easy” they say from time to time. Well, Fuck You! “Who Ever Said Life Would Be Hard?” I’ve never actually heard anyone utter the former as a precaution to taking huge risks or being met with adversity. It’s more or less an acknowledgment thrown around after disappointment rears its ugly head. Almost as if people are preprogrammed for failure.

Damn That! I say, “Life Can Be Easy!” Life can be easy, the moment you decide to start living outside of your shitty little comfort zone – which has held you hostage far too long.

Life can be easy the instant you decide that the quality of life for everyone around you needs to change for the better & then you start working in your own special way to fulfill that promise.

Life can be easy when you stop lying to yourself about what’s possible and what’s impossible. Stop being afraid to fail publicly, meanwhile you’re failing miserably in what you perceive to be private.

There comes a time when one must either go for the gusto, or stand aside while the actual dreamers with vision emerge.

“I’m sorry, but it’s time for you to choose!”

Best Wishes!
Qosmic Qadence

http://www.qosmicqadence.com

“Stop Cheating Yourself”

March 12, 2014qosmicqadence abstinence, action, Advice, Blogger, Focus, food for thought, good intentions, good man, good men, insight, inspiration, Inspiration/Motivation, Life, Live, men, relationship, relationship advice, relationship help, relationship insight, relationship101, relationships, resolution, Respect, self help, Sex Talk, Success, Support, truth, Uncategorized, women, words to live by Tags: cheaters, cheating, games, growup, heartbreak, men, relationships, silly, stop, women Leave a comment

“Stop Cheating Yourself”

By: Qosmic Qadence

The truth of the matter is that anyone who cheats is SELFISH and IMMATURE, whether they’re a Man or Woman. Their need for sexual gratification blatantly supersedes their desire to be in a Committed Relationship as verbally expressed (and psychotically) physically displayed through false actions that lead the other person to believe that they’re noble & respectable.

The bottomline is that they don’t care about you, or your feelings nor your emotional well being – nevertheless “LOVE You” if they’ll cheat. It’s NOT in them to love themselves enough to be true, so what makes you think they’ll live to love in truth with you? Women and Men who’re looking for something REAL need to understand that a person will NEVER love you the way you deserve to be loved, without you TEACHING them how to.

I’m not suggesting that if we’re being cheated on it’s 100% our fault, but we have to accept some of the responsibility. Why? Because a cheater exposed who is forgiven even once by us, is actually being ENABLED! When we stop making excuses for their IMMATURITY, they’ll GROW UP!

Qosmic Qadence
http://www.qosmicqadence.com

*Author of a Self-Help Relationship book entitled, “Y’all Got The Game Fu#%ed Up” is avidly outspoken about Male/Female relationships & the missing dynamic that leads most to failure these days. Visit his website listed above to explore this movement.

“Slow Support Is Actually Good Support?”

March 3, 2014qosmicqadence action, Advice, Blogger, Dream, Enjoyment, Focus, food for thought, goals, good intentions, good man, good men, insight, inspiration, Inspiration/Motivation, just do it, Life, Live, men, motivation, new year, Purpose, resolution, Respect, self help, Success, Support, truth, Uncategorized, women, words to live by Tags: charity, determination, dreams, drive, faith, focus, goals, help, Hope, life, living, Plans, resolve, success, support Leave a comment

By: Qosmic Qadence

Hmmm, interesting concept, no? Well think of it this way, “People who witness your growth first hand, fall into a class of ‘Stone Cold Believers’ in your Mission, Potential and Abilities to Create Results! How so? They’ve Witnessed your strides to turn a mere Dream into a Goal, which is naturally Fueled by a Burning Passion to make a Reality. And those my friends, are among the GREATEST Supporters you’ll ever have!” Be Patient With Them …

When a “Movement” begins those are the people who RUN to your success the Fastest! Their urgency helps generate the momentum necessary to shock and awe others, and further assist in spreading the word of achievement. The majority who are exposed to & who understand the value of your gifts, will marvel at the sheer number of eager supporters all of a sudden, as if to wonder, “Who wouldn’t have gotten on board with this movement from the start? DUH!”

So, give the slow poke supporters a bit of slack, for in the grand scheme of things, they’ll become your Greatest Asset!

Be Incredible!

Qosmic Qadence
http://www.qosmicqadence.com

*Published Poet & Author of “Love vs. The World” – A Book of Poetry, which sheds poetic light on various aspects of life. As well as a Self-Help Relationship book entitled, “Y’all Got The Game Fu#%ed Up” He is avidly outspoken about Male/Female relationships & the missing dynamic that leads most to failure these days. Visit his website listed above to explore this movement.

“A Good Man’s Claim”

February 25, 2014February 26, 2014qosmicqadence action, Advice, Blogger, Dream, Enjoyment, Focus, food for thought, goals, good man, good men, insight, inspiration, Inspiration/Motivation, just do it, Life, Live, men, motivation, Purpose, relationship, relationship advice, relationship help, relationship insight, relationship101, relationships, resolution, Respect, self help, Sex Talk, Support, truth, Uncategorized, women, words to live by Tags: advice, counsel, good men, insight, men, relationship, relationship advice, relationship101, relationships, sound advice, spiel, trust me, truth, women Leave a comment

By: Qosmic Qadence (Author, Poet)
@qosmic_qadence
http://www.qosmicqadence.com

It’s a sad but true fact. Most men have started out in early/younger relationships loving at half mass (even in the best possible loving situation), because we kept our “heart” & “options” open ‘Just In Case’ (something bad happened like a break up, or someone else better came along).

The silliest thing about this perspective is that our practice caused us more harm than good and NOW we recognize that. So, typically as a man matures he’ll open himself to the greatest possibility of love and seek to freely share that with a Great woman.

Unfortunately, many of those Great women have since stopped believing in men – or worse, have stopped believing in their own ability to acquire true love. They’ve unfortunately given so often, and received little to nothing or heartache in return. Ladies, be patient with us and try to understand. We’re Trying To Do Better … NOW! At least, “The Good Men Are”.

Qosmic Qadence
http://www.qosmicqadence.com

“Life Is For The Living!”

February 25, 2014February 26, 2014qosmicqadence action, Advice, Blogger, Dream, Enjoyment, Focus, food for thought, goals, inspiration, Inspiration/Motivation, just do it, Life, Live, motivation, Purpose, resolution, Respect, Support, Uncategorized, words to live by Tags: achieve, bliss, crybaby, dream, dream big, dues paid, food for thought, fulfillment, grind, hard work, inspiration, introspection, joy, life, live, moments, motivation, one to grow on, overcome, pay your dues, peace, pot of gold, purpose, rewards, struggle, success, suck it up, support, take action, win, word power, words of wisdom, work, work hard Leave a comment

By: Qosmic Qadence (Author, Poet)
@qosmic_qadence
http://www.qosmicqadence.com

Suppose with me for a second that everything you’ve ever desired in life was obtained. Suppose every dream you ever dared to dream came to fruition. Suppose every fear you could possibly conceive was eradicated by the exact opposite, and worry was replaced with an abundance of bliss. I suppose if this were possible you’d be a cartoon sketched or fictitious character from the pages of someone else’s wildest imagining.

Life isn’t always perfect. We don’t always win. We aren’t always met with the most favorable circumstances in every situation. But that’s what makes life a beautiful experience in and of itself. “Life is a journey of realization, which often ends in that place where dreams never begin”.

We must allow ourselves the opportunity to grow through experiences. Otherwise, we’ll follow the pattern of an old fools perception, lamenting in future years of how life was too short. In actuality, if more time is spent enjoying the precious moments gifted – including taking the bitter with the sweet – we’ll find ourselves more fulfilled through gratefulness.

Don’t rob yourself of an amazing journey through life because you’re burdened with worrying about the uncontrollable; hoping for the not yet attained; supposing to achieve what will never occur without action; or waiting alas for the magic to happen.

Make the best of what you have. Time elapses second by second whether we acknowledge it or not. Thus, time worthwhile is best measured in those moments spent living.

Enjoy the moments!

Qosmic Qadence
http://www.qosmicqadence.com

“Dream Support? Who Does That?”

February 24, 2014February 26, 2014qosmicqadence action, Advice, Dream, food for thought, goals, inspiration, Inspiration/Motivation, just do it, motivation, resolution, Respect, Support, Uncategorized, words to live by Tags: achieve, crybaby, dream, dream big, dues paid, food for thought, grind, hard work, inspiration, introspection, motivation, one to grow on, overcome, pay your dues, pot of gold, rewards, struggle, success, suck it up, support, take action, win, word power, words of wisdom, work, work hard Leave a comment

By: Qosmic Qadence (Author, Poet)
@qosmic_qadence
http://www.qosmicqadence.com

Have you ever had a DREAM? Ever HOPED to accomplish something Bigger Than Yourself? Ever DESIRED to Share a precious gift with the world that you Knew would benefit all of humanity once they got wind of it? Wasn’t that Dream, Hope &/or Desire of yours embraced by every solitary person that you encountered and shared it with? Didn’t they think you were the Greatest thing since sliced bread for devising such an idea and presenting it to them? Ha! OF COURSE NOT SILLY! “Welcome To The Real World!”

As a writer I’ve found it easier not to actually EXPECT support from anyone. It’s a mental and emotional trap to do so. Those people who have businesses that I’ve supported &/or presently support, or that I’ve extended certain courtesies, done things for and the like. Well, they weren’t gifted the blessing of my time or favor, in hopes of some eventual instance of payback displayed in a book sale or two. Nor was I hoping they’d end up “Shouting Me Out” promotionally via their social media pages.

Would it help my efforts if they did? Without question it would! But, God Bless those people anyway. My strides in life as an Author/Poet/Writer are being supported by some amazing “PEOPLE” whose acquaintance I would never have had an opportunity to make, without first pursuing MY dream. Therefore, even giving attention to those who aren’t supporting me is sort of a slap in the face to those who are! At least, that’s how I see it.

I had a mentor tell me years ago, “Your success in life will be perceived as some peoples failure! This is the reason they’ll find it difficult to throw their support behind your efforts”. So you see, complaining about their lack of support sort of feeds their hope that you won’t succeed – not to mention it validates their insecurities in life.

Think about it this way, if your success depended on their support alone, well, you’d pretty much be a failure presently. And we know this isn’t the case, right? Focus on what matters, keep grinding, push yourself to the maximum and seek to persevere at all costs, regardless who supports you.

Your blessings are YOUR blessings, designed for acquisition when the time comes. Value, Honor & Respect Them All! Sometimes, they’re disguised as a lack of support to spur focus & hard work.

Those Dreams, Hopes & Desires are YOURS to bring to Life! Don’t You Dare Stop To Monitor Support, When There’s Plenty Of Work To Be Done Before Making That A Reality!

Be Incredible!

Qosmic Qadence
http://www.qosmicqadence.com